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Post by sharpangel on Mar 22, 2007 15:52:51 GMT 7
;D Well guys lets face it that relationships are not perfect. It's not the usual happy ever after fairy tale and we can face a lot of humps in our road to real hapiness.
I had seen a lot of people engage in non tradional relationship and I am confident to atest the prosperity of their commitment.
(Mada!Naman tama na ang mga malalalim na words keen).
Okay okay, to the point. One thing that has been bugging me for some time now is the age, gender and religion issue in making solid foundations in relationships. Others think that insecurities often ignite because of these issues. Thus, destroying something beautiful.
Okay lang ba pumatol sa mga mas bata o matanda sayo(often they call it more mature)? eh same gender? What if religion sensitive and family niyo? Advice please.
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Post by BloodRush on Mar 23, 2007 21:24:53 GMT 7
Going for those younger/older than you doesn't really matter provided both parties are of legal age. Well, a gap of 50 years would definitely raise eye brows... but it happens. Loving a person is putting to no regard his limitations as long as it would not cause another person some harm. Besides, a 5 year gap seem relevant only when you are like around 10-30! That matters to most but as people grow older, age gap becomes less and less of an issue. Example: 1. 14 year old girl and a 25 year old guy... sounds bad eh? MATHCRAFT: 25 - 14 = 11 year gap (yikes!  ) 2. 52 year old lola and a 69 year old lolo.... sounds okay... MATHCRAFT: 69 - 52 = 17 year gap (yikes but it doesn't look bad  ) Now, for same gender.... errr... need you guys ask if I agree to same sex relationship? It's sad but there is no way we can change what's written in the Bible. Still, I don't see anything about loving a person. Isn't it what God taught us in the very first place. And we come to think of it, we are saving ourselves from having to share our personal 1 square meter with somebody we don't know after 4000 years from now. This argument sounds rediculous... but what are we gonna do about it? Whether we agree or not, gay relationship exists. And whether we accept it or not depends on us... but it doesn't matter to them. So if we are disgusted with it, then we might as well just let it be.. after all... IT'S THERE! Now people may think I'm one hypocrit f*g who admits he's gay but denounces same sex relationship. NO I DON'T. If given the opportunity I'd want some guy I love to love me back. But fate says 'no!' and thus I have to say 'awryt!'. Still have to wait. |
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Post by Pervertfox 고 러 on Mar 23, 2007 22:27:14 GMT 7
well relationships are between TWO people who love each other NOT your bestfriend, NOT the gossiping old lady in the store,and certainly NOT your relatives.. just between you the two of you... if they say 'NO' why do you have to agree with that and live your life in misery... they'll all die anyway... so why bother with their opinion... your decision will still the last card to be called..
MY OPINION:
well age does matter to me and so is gender... religion is another thing... again i think that beliefs are just between you and yourself... if you believe in santa clause go ahead you continue to love christmas and spread happy cheers throughout the world... but AGE and GENDER are something that are in the physical realm and wouldnt be easily neglected by my standards...
1 - 5 years is something i can tolerate..
MY ADVICE:
if you love the gossiping old lady by the store then go for her dude... i support you... you can do it.. (^_~)*
to make it short.. a relationship only need both of your decisions to work dandy fine.. If you can tolerate people thinking your a personal health worker then do it... If you can see yourself with the same sex go and do it... it's your life not theirs...
-leo
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Post by too lazy to sign in on Mar 25, 2007 3:02:41 GMT 7
it does matter if u prioritize what other's people say...
but one thing is that..
it's as if like youre mindin' ur own business but why can't they?...
well unless your relationship is really something worth to gossip for..
but if your happy with that and she/ he felt the same go for it.. pretty much the same thing as the traditional love story that we have read and seen..
religious stuff is really sensitive issue not unless someone is better to give up their faith just for his/her special someone...
so heads up men.. don't do something that would make her irritated..
sometimes being optimist in a relationship like that with this kind of stuff works.. coz we're born in a culture that those unordinary relationship has been really not accepted in our culture.. but as what i've said.. it doesn't matter...
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Post by too lazy to log in on Mar 25, 2007 3:07:27 GMT 7
it does matter if u prioritize what other's people say... but one thing is that.. it's as if like youre mindin' ur own business but why can't they?... well unless your relationship is really something worth to gossip for.. but if your happy with that and she/ he felt the same go for it.. pretty much the same thing as the traditional love story that we have read and seen.. religious stuff is really sensitive issue not unless someone is better to give up their faith just for his/her special someone... so heads up men.. don't do something that would make her irritated.. sometimes being optimist in a relationship like that really works.. coz we're born in a culture that those unordinary relationship is not accepted... but as what i've said.. it doesn't matter... just look at the brighter side of things |
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Post by too lazy to login 2 on Mar 26, 2007 0:18:56 GMT 7
yeah keen if you know what your capable of then go
no one would stop you with that...
and lazy guy #1 why do you have to quote yourself with no added information
im just wondering and it only happen after 5mins.
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Post by Pervertfox 고 러 on Mar 26, 2007 1:53:41 GMT 7
yeah angel go rape the old hag... oh sorry for the bad language.. i just felt the sudden urge for bad words right now... OMG im destroying my innocent image.. OMG OMG!!! sorry... (<_<) i just saw hell this past week... so i dont feel good right now... anyways i believe if you can stand for it then you possess the really rare thing called real love... why bother with the troublesome people if you can live with your decision and not regret after.. if thats the case then why not? ^_^ be careful though... you may never know if she wears a mask like MOST people do... your efforts may go waste for some low life freak that seems like a nice person but really isnt...  off topic: yeah dude i agree with lazy #2 guy... i think you need to explain why you quoted your post or you can request for deletion if you want too... |
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Post by lazy ghost on Mar 27, 2007 20:15:22 GMT 7
Again it depends on persons involve. I'm not speaking for everyone but for me.. age doesn't matter.. I happen to know alot of people that have relationships with younger/older partner. Age doesn't necessarily determine a persons maturity. There are young people who think maturely and older that thinks less so relationships with age gaps often occur. regarding gender, nowadays.. people are more open-minded in accepting relationships with same gender. I went once to a party in st.scho where my cousin studies. she introduced me to two of her pretty classmates and when they left.. she whispered.. "mag gf un" lol.. it seemed normal on all exclusive schools nowadays.. religion, well.. this one is a tough call.. since filipinos are very religious (daw?!) it's the parents and families that often come in between.. bottomline.. If you love someone.. hell with what people say.. sometimes it's nice to be crazy and out of control.. OT** uhm, why'd you ask anyway? hmmmm.. don't tell me inlove ka nanaman sa boss mo? lol.. just kiddin..  |
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Post by BloodRush on Apr 1, 2007 22:37:32 GMT 7
Hmm... lots of interesting opinions here. I smell onions cooking!
I'm glad people are more open minded these days.
So go! I'd like to hear more opinions.
Hmm.. naku Keen don't tell me tumagilid ka na din??? Jokes!!!!
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Post by Pervertfox 고 러 on Apr 2, 2007 0:47:33 GMT 7
yeah dude to think of it.. you replied in my posts but you didnt come back here... im intrigued too in this topic...
are you dating an older shaolin monk? OMG!
thats the best i can think of... that one goes by the age/gender/religion theme...
anyways like i said things work when the people involved want it to work..
when you two talked bout it and accepted the fact that nothing can stop you.. then im sure it would work through out...
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Post by sharpangel on Apr 2, 2007 9:01:58 GMT 7
haha ;D. thanks. just been busy. oh well, a lot has happened this past month.. first job..subic escapade..first payslip ;D and I've got to date one of the hottest femme i knew.nyahaha couldn't get any better.. nyahaha back to the topic. No pervi im not dating a Monk!haha ;D Okay ganito kasi yan.. uhmm..shetters do i need to post it here?.. naman..eklavu naman etech marvs.. |
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Post by Pervertfox 고 러 on Apr 3, 2007 5:53:43 GMT 7
well that depends on you... if you dont want to tell then who are we to force you, we are here only to listen.. ;D ;D ;D
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Post by sharpangel on Apr 4, 2007 16:21:36 GMT 7
langhiyang lablayp to.. ;D dami cons kaysa pros. tsk. ;D
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Post by BloodRush on Apr 5, 2007 4:38:59 GMT 7
langhiyang luv lyf???
Hmmm...
You guys are so hilarious!
But you still make sense....
hahahaha...
Cge pa talk lang ng talk. I want to hear more opinions!
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Post by sharpangel on Apr 10, 2007 12:37:25 GMT 7
langhiyang luv lyf??? Hmmm... You guys are so hilarious! But you still make sense.... hahahaha... Cge pa talk lang ng talk. I want to hear more opinions! hmm.. i miss liam. tsk. nyahaha ;D |
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